The Heartwork for Unconditional Families
Empowering Families.
Happy Children Begin With Happy Parents
The majority of families are rooted in feelings of unworthiness and codependency. We have the opportunity within families to create loving relationships and heal the wounding throughout our lineage. With each generation comes new changes, traditions, and beliefs, so the patterns within families get “watered down.” We are here to heal and change the patterning of our families and break unhealthy codependency, toxic behavior, passive-aggressive communication, etc. It is time NOW to roll up your sleeves and clean the house – releasing the unhealthy, cyclical patterns that our parents have adopted, grandparents, and even great-grandparents!
Patterns within family dynamics in parent/child and sibling relationships are full of rivalry, regardless of age. This is why it’s essential to understand that each person in the family unit is invaluable – Every individual family member is equally important to the whole family. We are here to create and learn how to have and experience healthy relationships.
The majority of families are rooted in feelings of unworthiness and codependency. We have the opportunity within families to create loving relationships and heal the wounding throughout our lineage. With each generation comes new changes, traditions, and beliefs, so the patterns within families get “watered down.” We are here to heal and change the patterning of our families and break unhealthy codependency, toxic behavior, passive-aggressive communication, etc. It is time NOW to roll up your sleeves and clean the house – releasing the unhealthy, cyclical patterns that our parents have adopted, grandparents, and even great-grandparents!
Patterns within family dynamics in parent/child and sibling relationships are full of rivalry, regardless of age. This is why it’s essential to understand that each person in the family unit is invaluable – Every individual family member is equally important to the whole family. We are here to create and learn how to have and experience healthy relationships.
A note about parenting: Often, parents are unaware of how they hurt their children’s feelings. I believe that children typically view themselves in a lose/lose position. Almost “damned if they do, and damned if they don’t.” Parents have a pretty different experience of the relationship. Parents are often well-intentioned, trying to be open and fair. But they don’t realize that they may change the rules of engagement when it works for them. This inconsistency creates distrust in a child because they are not sure if they will get in trouble this time if they share or feel judged; many times, it hasn’t been a safe place to share their true feelings.
One of my greatest joys in life is to help heal relationships between parents and children. To assist in healing the bonds within families so they can experience unconditional love versus conditional love, which is based on achievements and goals. We have all been encouraged – parents and children- to focus on what needs to be done and if it is done correctly. However, we have lost sight of the human Heart – the Heart of the Matter for all concerned. And so it is my greatest joy to witness the strengthening of Heart connections between family members.
I look forward to guiding YOU on this journey.
A note about parenting: Often, parents are unaware of how they hurt their children’s feelings. I believe that children typically view themselves in a lose/lose position. Almost “damned if they do, and damned if they don’t.” Parents have a pretty different experience of the relationship. Parents are often well-intentioned, trying to be open and fair. But they don’t realize that they may change the rules of engagement when it works for them. This inconsistency creates distrust in a child because they are not sure if they will get in trouble this time if they share or feel judged; many times, it hasn’t been a safe place to share their true feelings.
One of my greatest joys in life is to help heal relationships between parents and children. To assist in healing the bonds within families so they can experience unconditional love versus conditional love, which is based on achievements and goals. We have all been encouraged – parents and children- to focus on what needs to be done and if it is done correctly. However, we have lost sight of the human Heart – the Heart of the Matter for all concerned. And so it is my greatest joy to witness the strengthening of Heart connections between family members.
I look forward to guiding YOU on this journey.
